DOUBLE STANDARDS in 2010

I woke up this morning thinking about “sex”, lolol.  And NO not feaning for it personally but more along the lines of where “sex” stands for women and men!  I hear men talk everyday about who they are sleeping with & how that girl is sexing him, but if the show was on the other foot, I wonder what the difference is.

A guy meets a girl and from the physical aspect alone or the way she stands or walks one of the 1^st thoughts is “I wonder if it’s wet” “I wonder if its tight” blah blah blah, but for a woman like me; why is it NOT OK for me to wonder if HE is “packing” “how long can he last”, or “what kinda faces does he make”, lololol.  I don’t think you have to be in a serious relationship to have to find answers to those questions. 

Picture a hot day and a group of men are playing basketball! There are sweating, and looking damn good! Why as a woman with class will I be considered a hoe or fast if I just approached a guy like “damn baby, can I see what that be like?” If you’re dancing on a guy in the club he is thinking if you can do them moves on his dick, so why can’t I wonder how his lips feel on my clit after I caught him staring & licking his lips?

I asked this on twitter and the responses I got from women were remarkable!  Its 2010 and there is NO such thing a double standard when it comes to sex.  There is a strong difference in a slut, a hoe, or a freak.  If a woman is clean and carries her self well I believe she is entitled to a one night stand.  I believe she can sleep with as many men as she wants but it’s in how you go about your business. 

Men do you really feel offended if you are told the next morning, “you gotta go”?

Are you really offended if you are a side piece?? I mean seriously women have been singing about switching positions and playing the role of man but yet you guys still try to label us??? Why????

~@MARLEYtales                              

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ENOUGH IS ENOUGH ALREADY

How is Tiger Woods "cheating" still apart of our local & national news???

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH

When is the correct age for someone to start taking OWNERSHIP?? Let me re-phrase that. As a society we live by age limits! When you are 18 you are old enough to buy cigarrets, when you are 21 you are old enough to drink! So when you have a child (no matter how old you are) does that change the age limit requirements! I know women who are 21 (old enough to go to the CLUB) and have yet taken the role of OWNERSHIP......

defined as: "The state or fact of being an owner. Legal right to the possession of a thing."

So let me ask my question again, by LEGAL age OWNERSHIP really begins at 18, you are LEGALLY RESPONSIBLE for your actions. You can go to PRISON! You can purchase TOBACCO. When you deliver a child you sign a LEGAL document taking OWNERSHIP!!!!!!!

You are responsible for another life, wether it be hunger, pain, shelter, or LIFE, but the situation is yours!!

I only wanted to know if I was the only person who thought in such a manner. I cant understand how the 90's baby generation is slipping a way. How can one even attempt to make an excuse? I've heard it all from "im a single woman"

TATS~ YES OR NO???

I work in the corporate world everyday...My job consist of conference calls, giving presentations, or just plain office work. Since I have been with my job I have gotten 3 tattoos added to the 8 I already had....

Are tattoos really offensive, or is it more of a self expression? I personally think that it is self expression and you shouldnt be judged based on tattoos.

I have more than what meets the eye, and by looking at me you would not be able to tell where or how many tats I have eventhough I have 11!!

I love the art and the meaning behind tattoos, I love the ability to tell a story that you can keep for ever. I am often asked "what are you gonna do when you get older?" LOL, well I plan on owning my own business and my tattoss wont be a problem, but when I am older I probably will still continue to get tatted. I AM ADDICTED TO TATTOOS. Spending hundreds of dollars on material things is not what excites me. I would rather go sit in my tattoo artist chair and come up with a unique way to express myself other than fashion.....what do you think?

a poem I wrote

IF MY WALLS COULD TALK
-Nicole Boyce


If my walls could talk, they would tell you how many men have truly been inside.
If my walls could talk, you would truly know the pleasure you bring to my life.

If my walls could talk, you would have endless conversation from the pain stuck inside.
If my walls could talk, you would not be worried about what’s happening on the outside.

If my walls could talk, they would tell you secrets only they know from my past
If my walls could talk, they would tell you, you should have been the first but so happy you are the last

If my walls could talk, they would thank you for your gentle touch
If my walls could talk, they would write a song called “I MISS YOU SO MUCH”

If my walls could talk, they would pray when I am sleeping
If my walls could talk, they would comfort me when I am weeping

If my walls could talk you would know me in and out
If my walls could talk, they would scream and shout!!!!

Shout THANK YOU, THANK YOU, and THANK YOU for the women you have helped me become.
Screaming louder and louder sounds of laughter of the fears you have taught me to overcome.

My walls are more than what lies between my thighs; my walls surround my heart and open up when you stare into my eyes.
You have examined me from head to toe, follow the path along my walls and you should never be left feeling ALONE

~~WOMAN TALK~~

me and my girl start talking bout our lives.... SEE IM 24 YRS OLD, AND MY BEST FRIEND since the 8th grade are discussing a 5yr plan.....

OBVIOUSLY we have lived different lives and have different views (oh thats the way to make a REAL friendship work), WHY HAVE A HOMEGIRL THAT YOU be HATING on----like i said THIS IS ABOUT WOMAN TALK. I feel like i only 5 yrs starting from the day I turn 25 to make my story!! At 30 being estblished shows stability in life when you live it right....

Since I started life early, in my OPINION it gave me a head start!

........all the young ladies that learned on their own wether it be good or bad, AND YOU NEVER MADE THE SAME MISTAKE TWICE will understand this!!

Something my grandmother always told me

in grade school everyone is your FRIEND, middle school LESS THAN EVERYONE, highschool a FEW, and after that 1 or 2

My daughter is the MOTIVATION behind my paticipation in WOMAN TALK, she drives me to be the best that I can be. Having my closet friend to me, start the WOMAN PHASE with me is all i could ask for at this point. When LOVE comes he will say HELLO, but until then this 5 yr plan is about ME NOW!

the future is bright, as I prepare for "grinding" season I see how this will be the BIGGEST transformation i have ever endured!

LETS GO!!!!!!